Have you ever heard the question are people were created
good people and socialized to be bad or are we created bad and just taught what
good and bad is. This is a good question, but I think what I have come up with
is that we are created to as good people but in our world, we have realized
that we have to be selfish to survive and therefore we will do anything to put
ourselves first.
The last two weeks I have found this to be very true. People
suck. However, people only suck when they are selfish. If it doesn’t affect
them directly it doesn’t mean anything.
Have you ever try to do a nice gesture for someone and they
just bush it off or not even notice it. Have you ever gone way out of your way
to simply show people that you love that you care about them? They don’t get
it. They don’t see how much you put into it or how excited you were for it and got
nothing. People are selfish.
Yes I am selfish as well. I don’t get excited at things I probably
should. Or I’m not as thankful as I should be. I suck. I get mad at things I shouldn’t.
I bush little things off. I say no when I should say yes to letting people do
things for me. I’m not saying I’m perfect, but I do try and I try very hard.
They say it’s the little things that matter, and it almost seems
like these little things are over looked now-a-days. Why don’t people do the
little things anymore? They still matter.
What are you going to do for someone you love today? Wash the
dishes, buy some flowers, call them at work just to tell them you love them,
clean the house, have a coffee and chat, watch the baseball game on even though
you rather not, take a walk, send a gift, surprise them with more than they
expected, etc.
Do something for someone else. It will make you and them feel better.