What are friends for? You know like why do we get tangled up in someone else's life and they get tangled in our lives?
Some people stay and try and untangle the mess, but it's impossible so they leave, while others stay long and love the tangle. Some people look at the tangle and want nothing to do with it and other just jump right in.
But what happens when you try and go into their tangle? Do they let you get close and learn about it, do they let you in but not too close, do they let you try and untangle it.
It all comes under trust. What if you try and untangle something and it gets it more messy or breaks a string!?
Do they trust you enough to let you do things on your terms or is it always in their terms?
Are they always getting what they want, are they always telling you when and where and why?
A tangle can not be controlled it just has to be. And yes sometimes it looks better when things are neat but that's boring.
Have you ever tried to untangle a knot by yourself? Was it hard? Did you let someone else try. Everyone has a different perspective. Everyone has a different way of doing things. So why is it that we won't give someone a try with our knot.
Trust.
We only trust certain people. These certain people we always let them control out tangle. But some people are "in" the tangle but only on certain terms. Only when you say so, only when you want them.
Does that seem very fair?
To me this make no sense. Why can you control my tangle but I can't come every close to your tangle?
It seems to me like I am not a certain person. So what do you do now? If you can't be in someone's tangle like they are in yours, do you leave? Try and find another tangle?
What's the point of loving a tangle and not being allowed to love it and admire it.
You can't tell me what to do, what to love, where to go, when to say something. That's not fair.
I'm not going to let you control my tangle anymore if I can't control yours just as much.